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  • Chesko, Regan, and special guest Misha Brown (known better as social media superstar "DontCrossAGayMan") discuss the question that has been posed as a response to the "Man or Bear" discourse that has been all over social media in recent weeks: "Men, would you rather tell your feelings to a woman or a tree?"

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    Walking on Eggshells with an Emotional Vampire
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  • In this episode, Chesko and Regan discuss weaponized incompetence through the lens of Luciana Grandi Lourencao's half-marathon win, an AITA, and a man making the case for why he thinks the best case scenario for a woman is to be able to mommy her partner into the man she wants him to be.

    (Note: Chesko might also accidentally be a fourth example)

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  • In this episode, Chesko and Regan discuss the “diabolical lies” told by Dr. Elizabeth Butker’s son to the 2024 graduating class of Benedictine College.

    Alternative episode titles: “Small Kick Energy” and, my personal favorite, “The Smallest Kicker That Ever Lived.”

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  • In this week's episode, Regan and Chesko breakdown a truly unhinged interaction that Sydney Mulvaney (@Sydneytattoos) shared on TikTok about a voicemail her mother received after a single phone call with a man. If anyone was wondering why so many women chose the bear...show them this episode.

    Note: Chesko's microphone doesn't normally sound this bad, but we ran into a technical issue this week. Back to normal going forward!

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  • On part two of this discussion, Chesko and Regan continue to discuss the question that has moved off of social media and into mainstream media, “Would you rather be stuck in a forest with a man or a bear?” More specifically, we delve into the story of the demise of Grizzly Man Timothy Treadwell.

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  • On this week’s episode, Chesko and Regan discuss the question that has set social media ablaze this week, “Would you rather be stuck in a forest with a man or a bear?” More specifically, we discuss the men who were angered by the fact that so many women answered “bear” and who responded with variations of, “Well I guess that makes me the real victim.”

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  • Dr. Roxanne Felig fills in as our temporary manhater this week as we discuss student evaluations, body hair, and the quite literal objectification of women.

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  • In this episode, we discuss Mr. Pick Me spending Spring Break in the hospital (which leads into a long discussion on medical gaslighting, fatphobia and racism in medicine.

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  • In this episode of Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater, Chesko and Regan answer the question, "Who should pay for the first date?"

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  • In this episode of Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater, Chesko and Regan breakdown the AITA "My family wants me to break up with my girlfriend about how she responded to my brother's prank?"

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  • Part 2 of our episode with Caylee Cresta! Caylee has 2.9 million followers on TikTok and focuses on making uplifting content for women. Let us know your thoughts on this episode with all of us online!

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  • Caylee Cresta has 2.9 million followers on TikTok and focuses on making uplifting content for women. Let us know your thoughts on this episode with all of us online!

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  • In this debut episode of Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater, Chesko and Regan breakdown an absolutely absurd "Am I the asshole" (AITA) that recently went viral that asks the question, "AITA for kicking my wife out after she punched my mom in the face?"

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  • Please note, Bad Advice Wednesdays contains mature themes and may not be appropriate for all listeners.

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  • Regan’s a writer, actor, content creator, and “nice guy” nay-sayer. While she got her following making mom friendly content, a bad experience with a “nice guy” inspired her to create the F the Nice Guy podcast. Now she gets to do what she loves, sharing stories, laughing at a toxic man’s expense, and shredding the “nice guy” because… F the “nice guy”!

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  • Regan’s a writer, actor, content creator, and “nice guy” nay-sayer. While she got her following making mom friendly content, a bad experience with a “nice guy” inspired her to create the F the Nice Guy podcast. Now she gets to do what she loves, sharing stories, laughing at a toxic man’s expense, and shredding the “nice guy” because… F the “nice guy”!

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  • Please note, Bad Advice Wednesdays contains mature themes and may not be appropriate for all listeners.Support the show and listen to episodes a week early on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/speechprofFollow Melanie Zanetti:Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/melanie ZanettiFollow Chesko, The Speech Prof:TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprofInstagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprofFacebook: http://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprofFollow BAW on all social media platforms @BadAdviceWednesdaysLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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  • Caylee Cresta has 2.8 million followers on TikTok and focuses on making uplifting content for women. I had the pleasure of meeting her in person and hanging out last month and I'm so excited to share this conversation with you all.Support the show and listen to episodes a week early on Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/speechprofFollow Caylee Cresta:TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@cayleecrestaYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/CayleeCrestaInstagram: https://instagram.com/cayleecrestaFollow Chesko, The Speech Prof:TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprofInstagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprofFacebook: http://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprofFollow BAW on all social media platforms @BadAdviceWednesdaysLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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  • The conclusion of my interview with Scott Christian Sava!Scott is an animator, illustrator, director, writer, producer and part-time Hobbit! Over the last twenty years, Scott Christian Sava's work has brought some of the world's most beloved characters to life in film, television, comics, and games. From Casper the Friendly Ghost to the Mighty Morphin, Power Rangers to Star Trek and Spider-Man. Scott's unique talents and vision have been called upon by Disney, Universal Studios, Nickelodeon, and more. In 2000 he founded Blue Dream Studios, which has produced work for Star Wars, X-Files, Aliens vs. Predator, Spider-Man, and other franchises, in addition to creating its own line of kids graphic novels. The studio's first feature film, Animal Crackers, is now on Netflix and was the Summer of 2020's #1 animated movie in the world. Scott and his wife and two kids live in Franklin, TN. Scott's mission, simply put, is to make "the world a kinder, gentler place, one story at a time.Please note, Bad Advice Wednesdays contains mature themes and may not be appropriate for all listeners.Support the show and listen to episodes a week early on Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/speechprofFollow Scott:https://www.tiktok.com/@ssavaartInstagram: https://www.Instagram.com/sssavaartYouTube: @ssavaart Follow Chesko, The Speech Prof:TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprofInstagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprofFacebook: http://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprofYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@therealspeechprofFollow BAW on all social media platforms @BadAdviceWednesdaysTheme song by Odanis the Rapper: https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapperLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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  • Santa J. Claus is a legendary figure who embodies the spirit of joy, giving, and spreading cheer.

    Santa is known around the world, not only for his Christmas work but also his social media presence, with close to 5 million followers on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, Facebook, and more. His uplifting and positive video messages have struck a chord with people of all ages, including celebrities, social influencers, and brands.

    Santa J. Claus was featured in Meghan Trainor and Jojo Siwa’s music video called “I Believe in Santa” and has worked with many brands including Got Milk?, Crumbl Cookies, See's Candies, Lifetime TV, Kellogg’s, Tabasco, Lowe’s, and more.

    Santa dedicates much of his time working with and helping to support child advocacy groups and hospitals, including Benioff Children’s Hospitals of San Francisco and Oakland, Lucile Packard Children's Hospital at Stanford, the Make-A-Wish Foundation, UNICEF, and St. Jude Children’s Research Center.

    Santa’s jolly demeanor and timeless kindness bring smiles to faces and spread Christmas cheer throughout the year.

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