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  • HAPPY JUNE!!!! Let's kick this week off with a suuuuuuuper chill episode. Here's my summer favorites and my summer maintenance routine to look and feel my best this summer. I give you recommendations from hair care, skincare, makeup, high maintenance routines, supplements, food and movement!

    Products mentioned:

    Amazon Summer Products

    Skin Gym mask

    Face Sculpting Tool

    Espressoh Highlighter

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  • I hope you heal from the things no one ever apologized for.

    This episode is for anyone who has been hurt by someone and has struggled to move on because there was never any apology or closure. Today we’re talking about moving on without an apology and healing with or without that person. 

    Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Betterhelp. Visit betterhelp.com/TNTC to get 10% off your first month

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  • I try to go into every year with an idea of the things I want to accomplish as well as the person I want to be. With it almost being half way through the year, I want to talk about some things I'm letting go of. These things, I believe, are holding me back from reaching my full potential and doing more harm than good. 

    Things I'm letting go of:

    Beating myself up over past mistakes when I didn't know any betterPeople pleasing out of fear of being aloneTrying to label myself or put myself in a boxSaying no out of fear of failing or being uncomfortableSelf limiting beliefs

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  • #111

    With it being Mental Health Awareness Month and following last week’s episode, we’re talking about 3 daily wins. A lot of my stress and anxiety come from wanting to be successful, which leads me to overwork myself and put my needs on the back burner. I’m slowly starting to learn that there’s more than one way to be successful. If you’re taking care of yourself physically, mentally, and spiritually, YOU ARE SUCCESSFUL!

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  • After struggling with burnout, I thought it was only right to come back and speak about how I’ve been feeling as well as the pressure to always do more.  I think a lot of us struggle to actually relax because society has made us believe that taking a break is a bad thing. Whenever we take time to slow down, we feel guilty, like we could be doing something more productive. Today I break down why we need to let go of this “rotting” mindset and allow ourselves to relax.

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  • You might have seen me recently crying on Tiktok over my imposter syndrome. While I was in California, I found myself in a few uncomfortable situations that ultimately led to me doubting myself and my abilities. In today's episode, I talk about my struggles with imposter syndrome, what happened in California, where imposter syndrome comes from, as well as how to overcome imposter syndrome.

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  • In today's episode, I am talking about why girls have such a bad reputation when it comes to friendships. I have heard so many people, especially men, say girls are so much drama and they're always fighting with their friends. In my opinion, I think the reason why girls have more friendship fallouts is because we have higher expectations for our friends than guys do. 

    Today I'm talking about

    Healthy friendships I currently haveComparing my boyfriend and his friendships to mineWhy guy friendships and girl friendships are so differentNot allowing disrespect in friendshipsWhen to cut ties and end a friendship

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  • Do you find yourself being jealous and unhappy when others succeed? Listen to this episode. In today’s episode, I talk about why we struggle to be happy for others and how to actually be supportive when others do good. 

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  • ARIES RISE!!!!! It’s officially April and my birthday week. With my birthday coming up, I wanted to talk about previous birthdays where I felt underappreciated by the people in my life. Birthdays can be really hard, especially when you don’t have many friends and feel very overwhelmed. Over the years, I’ve found myself upset over the lack of plans and birthday wishes because all I wanted was to be celebrated. In today’s episode, I talk about celebrating yourself and how you can’t expect others to show up for you if you’re not willing to show up for yourself. 

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  • Every year around my birthday, I spiral because I am overly aware of the fact that I am getting older. I used to be so excited for my birthday, and now I dread it because I am afraid of getting older. In today's episode, I talk about the fears of aging, backhanded compliments, beauty standards, and why I am no longer attaching a negative meaning to aging. 

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  • Stop minimizing what you want out of fear of what others think.

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  • How to stop being bothered by others actions and perception of you. Why you should to stop taking things so personally.

    Mikayla's episode that inspired me: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5cYgbiocg2UuWhvncuXSwm?si=8hdF6u9NQvuXf7Ky13otPg

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  • YOUR GIRL HAS BEEN IN A FUNK. In an attempt to make myself feel better, here are some questions to ask yourself next time you're in a funk.

    What’s taking up the majority of your time?

    Who are you spending time with?

    Are you spending more time in your head or in the moment?

    What are your current habits?

    Are you listening to your body and your needs?

    What is something you can do right now to feel relieved or feel happy?

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  • ADVICE SESSION #7!!!

    This episode covers:

    Going back to an ex after they left youBeing “too sad” or “too much” for peopleWhat to do if your partner thinks other people are attractiveWhat to do if your ex is treating their new partner betterHow to be happy alone when all your friends are in relationshipsDealing with being ghosted and rejectedBeing the best version of yourself

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  • In this week's episode, we're talking about the different ways to say and show your love for someone. I am constantly hearing people say, "if he wanted to he would" or "he doesn't love you if he doesn't do this." Although there might be some truth behind those statements, in today's episode I talk about why it's not that simple and how everyone expresses their love differently.

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  • Today we're talking about self-care that goes so much deeper than throwing on a face mask or going for a walk. In today's episode, I talk about 10 non-physical things that you can do to take care of yourself. 

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  • With February being the month of love, I want to focus the next few episodes on self-love. In today’s episode, I talk about the harm that comes from losing yourself in a relationship as well as the process of learning to be alone and love yourself after a breakup.

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  • Quick mini vent sesh!!! Today's episode is a reminder that you're allowed to be angry and advocate for yourself when someone disrespects you. Standing up for yourself DOES NOT MAKE YOU A BAD PERSON. 

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  • I CAN'T BELIEVE IT'S BEEN 2 YEARS OF TRYING NOT TO CARE. With it being the 2 year anniversary of this podcast, I'm sharing my story of how hard work and being delusional got us here. I I talk about why being delusional works, how your thoughts control your reality, and going after what you want.

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  • The truth about big friend groups and why I think the best people have less friends. 

    In today's episode, I talk about the misconception that people with little to no friends are bad and don't know how to maintain healthy friendships. I strongly believe a big reason why people struggle to maintain friendships is because they don't allow their friends to walk all over them. These people would rather stick up for themselves and risk losing those friends than stay in friendships with people who don't respect them. I also talk about my experience in and out of a large friend group and why I think these types of friendships can bring out the worst in people.

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