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We will be releasing episodes every other week in June and July. This is a re-release of our episode originally named Living Abroad "like" the Locals.
Whatâs the difference between an expat and a migrant? In this episode we explore the global impact of digital nomads and tourists, the community cost of airbnbs, and third-wave gentrification while unpacking our own experiences as expats.Topics covered:-Why are some groups labeled expats while others are migrants?-Media portrayals vs our own experience as expats-The rise of digital nomads-Displacement of local populations-The 3 waves of gentrification-The billionaire class and investment properties-The issue with Airbnb-NYCâs changing response to gentrification-Voluntourism and the ethics of being a tourist
Sources & transcript available to anyone at our â â Patreonâ â â¤ď¸
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This week, a special guest co-host joins Lucy⌠Topics covered:-National Geographicâs âThe Changing Face of Americaâ and The Race Card Project-The rise in interracial marriages and multiracial children-Fusion in food: the history of food fusion and its newest form-Fusion vs authenticity as it relates to Chinese American food-Fusion in music: international music charting in America, racial barriers in country musicSources & transcript available to anyone at our â â Patreonâ â â¤ď¸
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So we know supplements have questionable science and little regulation, but what about something as common as protein powder? Join us as we investigate claims that roots and pills can invigorate libidos, kick coffee habits or even prevent hangovers. We discover surprising facts, and even find a product that convinces Lucy, our skeptic.
Topics covered:-The science behind the most common vitamin and mineral supplements Americans take: multivitamins, calcium, and fish oil-Why we add vitamins to food products-Do scientists agree on what levels of vitamins we need for ideal health?-The surprising science behind protein powder, and should you be taking it daily?-Influencer promoted supplements: Athletic Greens (AG1) and libido gummies-Herbs and roots in traditional Chinese and Indian medicine, adaptogens and coffee alternatives-A supplement to rid us of hangovers-The placebo effectSources & transcript available to anyone at our â â Patreonâ â â¤ď¸
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We lurk on Redditâs Am I the Asshole forum and pass our own judgements using the backing of moral philosophy and some questionable logic.Questions covered:-AITA for telling my wife that she needs to seriously work on her mental and physical toughness?-AITA for being truthful and admitting that I find my wife unattractive after her surgery?-AITA for leaving my disabled mom with no caregivers after giving her over 6 months notice?Sources & transcript available to anyone at our â â Patreonâ â â¤ď¸
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The case of the true crime obsession. Join us as we unwind the history, unearth the clues, and navigate the pitfalls of being a true crime fan.Topics covered:-The history and origins of true crime -The rise of detective fiction-How Serial changed the industry and the rise of prestige true crime dramas: HBOâs The Jinx: The Life and Deaths of Robert Durst and Netflixâs Making a Murderer-Who watches true crime and why-Gender differences in criminals, victims, and viewers-News coverage of crimes and the relationship between serial killers and media-True crimeâs effect on our judicial system-The problems with true crime: sensationalization of crime for profit and entertainment, centering the criminal rather than the victim-Parasocial relationships and armchair detectives-The women who fall in love with serial killers
Sources & transcript available to anyone at our â Patreonâ â¤ď¸
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We examine the social norms around paying for things for others. From gifts to obligations, how we spend our money speaks to our culture, our values, and how we may or may not be afraid of judgment from others.Topics covered:-Spending on milestones for our friends: weddings, showers, bachelorette parties, gifts-Sex and The City, A Womanâs Right to Shoes-Wedding one-upmanship & social media-Why we follow social norms, even when it doesnât align with our self interest-Money norms when it comes to dating and splitting finances as a couple, in the US vs Europe-The history of tipping, tipping culture today, and tipflation
Sources & transcript available to anyone at our Patreon â¤ď¸
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We explore the tropes, trends, and monsters in the romance universe, asking important questions like why is it we have to go outside of our species to find a good man? đš Topics covered:-The history of the romance novel, from 1700s to today-The development of modern romance: romantasy, erotica, tropes-Inflection points like the invention of the âthe bodice ripperâ in 1972, Fifty Shades of Gray in modern day-An exploration of the types of romance novels: ACOTAR (A Court of Thorns and Roses), From Blood and Ash, Fourth Wing; authors like Colleen Hoover, Emily Henry; and monster corn like Ice Planet Barbarians and the Omega verse-Dark romance, taboos, and the âmisattribution of arousalâ phenomenon-How monster smut helps you heal from trauma-Kindle Unlimited and AI tools effect on indie authors and readership-Changing ideals of masculinity-Female sexual liberation
Sources & transcript available to anyone at our â Patreonâ â¤ď¸
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We dive into the Western Esoteric Tradition, how its shaped our stories, symbols, and secret societies. From the Knights Templar to Beyonce as a member of the Illuminati, we traverse centuries of history and question fact vs conspiracy.Topics covered:-The origins of secret societies in the Western Esoteric Tradition-Its relation to Dark Academia as a genre of fiction: Babel by RF Kuang, Ninth House by Leigh Bardugo, Harry Potter-The history of the Freemasons and what we know about their practices today -The Anti-Masonic party and the pushback against secret societies-The Knights Templar and their potential ties to the Masons-The history of the Illuminati and modern conspiracy theories-How secret societies relate to modern Greek fraternities, Phi Beta Kappa-The history of secret societies at universities, and how the Skull and Bones society at Yale has changed over time-Research on in group, out group psychology in relation to empathy vs apathy
Sources & transcript available to anyone at our â Patreonâ â¤ď¸
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Are men and women drifting further apart in their views on the world? After living on the girlie side of the internet for so long, Jennifer & Lucy dip their toes into male-coded media and experience its wildly different messaging.Topics covered:-Male-coded media personalities and their similarities/differences: Joe Rogan, Andrew Huberman, David Goggins, Jocko Willink-Stoicism as a predominately male philosophy-Should art be separated from the artist?-Parasocial relationships and how celebrities become role models-Media echo chambers and how reading fiction helps us develop empathy-Female-coded media personalities and their similarities/differences: Alex Cooper of Call Her Daddy, Binchtopia, Brene Brown, Glennon Doyle-The differences between male-coded and female-coded content and messaging-How the genders are drifting apart-Gender socialization and gender as a construct
Sources & transcript available to anyone at our â Patreonâ â¤ď¸
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Jennifer shares the experience of her first panic attack (+ involuntary grippy sock vacation), and we investigate what causes panic attacks and what you can do when faced with one.Topics covered:-How to recognize a panic attack-What to do when experiencing one-The types of panic attacks: depersonalization/derealization, cardiac, and respiratory-The biomechanisms causing fight or flight-How you can control (and let go of control) when it comes to panic attacks-The relationship between panic disorder and depression-How panic disorder differs between men and women
Sources & transcript available to anyone at our â Patreonâ â¤ď¸
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Why does it feel so hard to have fun as an adult? And based on our feed, is everyone having it or is no one...đ We look into fun as a business, fun for our health, and why/if the fun isnât funning anymore.
Topics covered:-Key elements of fun: playfulness, connection, and flow-How you can have more fun-The commodification of fun: party coaches, corporate team events, fun as an industry-The performance of fun for social media-The impact of fun on mental and physical health-The importance of close friends as well as a large network of acquaintances-Younger generations are lonelier than ever-Shifting perceptions of fun in the 1900s-Changes in how Americans spend time since the 1960s-How Americans spend time compared to the rest of the world
Sources & transcript available to anyone at our â Patreonâ â¤ď¸
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We share the stories of four female founders we admire. From construction to candy, VC-backed to self-funded, they cover a wide spectrum of ways to build a business.Topics covered:-The myth of the young founder in Silicon Valley-Different paths to found companiesâventure capital vs angel investors vs bootstrapping-Alternative exit strategiesâacquisition, private equity-How female founders lead differently-Lucy Guo and her companies, Scale AI and Passes -Kristine Locker and her startup Locker, a shoppable Pinterest-Tracey Youngâs $875M exit for PlanGrid and her new startup TigerEye-Tara Bosch developing and selling SmartSweets
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Whatâs the difference between an expat and a migrant? In this episode we explore the global impact of digital nomads and tourists, the community cost of airbnbs, and third-wave gentrification while unpacking our own experiences as expats.Topics covered:-Why are some groups labeled expats while others are migrants?-Media portrayals vs our own experience as expats-The rise of digital nomads-Displacement of local populations-The 3 waves of gentrification-The billionaire class and investment properties-The issue with Airbnb-NYCâs changing response to gentrification-Voluntourism and the ethics of being a tourist
Sources & transcript available to anyone at our â Patreonâ â¤ď¸
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The girls chat girl dinner, girl math, and the girlification of womanhood. Is Lucy secretly a clean girl? And wth is a blueberry girl?Topics covered:- Does the use of âgirlâ infantilize women? (spoiler: we think not)- The changing connotations of womanhood & girlhood- Cultural origins of the use of âgirlâ- Girl internet & memes: girl dinner, girl math, girl hobbies, girl aesthetics - Coquette and girlhood nostalgia- Corporatization of the girl trend- Modern girlhood and the influence of social media- Sephora preteens - Building community and togetherness
Sources & transcript available to anyone at our â Patreonâ â¤ď¸
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We each take personality tests and have some unexpected results. Is Jennifer actually likely to commit a crime of passion? đŞ We dive into the history of personality tests, if thereâs any science behind them, and why weâre all obsessed with categorizing ourselves.Topics covered:-The Myers Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI)-The Enneagram personality test-The Big Five personality test-The Feelings Wheel-How factors in our life (gender, socioeconomic status, birth order) affect our personality-Do our personalities change over time, and can we change them intentionally?-Why we like to categorize ourselves and ties to astrology and divination, tarot
Sources & transcript available to anyone at our â Patreonâ â¤ď¸
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Why does becoming a mother feel harder than ever? We reveal our inner turmoil, unpack our fears, and try to understand whatâs got us so jaded. Topics covered:-Frameworks to decide if you want to become a mother-Portrayals of motherhood in the media-The lifestyle considerations of motherhood-Why Americaâs healthcare system and birthing process hurts the mother-infant bond-The rise of the trad wife and desire for the soft life among young women-What happens when a countryâs population declines-Ways other countries have the edge when it comes to supporting mothers-The science behind the âgeriatric pregnancyâ at 35âis the cut-off accurate?
Other episodes referenced in this one:
Girlbossing Too Close to the Sun
Is Gilmore Girls America dead?
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Roses are red đš, violets are blue đ, is monogamy dead or is love still true? We share a bit about our romantic lives and dive into how to find your perfect match, making love last, and the evolution of marriage.Topics covered:-Biologically, what makes us feel love?-Marriage as an economic proposition and marriage for romance-How can we make love last? (research from The Gottman Institute)-Early predictors of divorce-Conflict management in couples-The history of human evolution in relation to monogamy and marriage-Dating apps and the modern love landscape-The New York Times 36 Questions to Fall in Love-Polyamory and ethical non-monogamy
Sources & transcript available to anyone at our â Patreonâ â¤ď¸
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Happy Lunar New Year! This is the year of the dragon đ˛ and not just because of Fourth Wing. Lucy shares her cultural heritage, and we explore the surprising intersections of the Chinese and Western Zodiacs, trying a bit of divination for ourselves.Topics covered:-Traditions and foods associated with Chinese New Year-The Chinese Zodiac and the sexagenary cycle (60 year time system that combines the 12 zodiac animals with 5 elements and also yin and yang-How the Chinese Zodiac and the Western Zodiac was developed-The math and science behind the Western Zodiac-Significance of entering the Age of Aquarius -Zodiac compatibility-We share our Western and Chinese Zodiac signs/charts
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We talk girlboss culture, the rise, the fall, and those of us left in its wake, feeling burnt out and lost.This was actually the first episode we ever recorded! đŤ˘
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Gilmore girlies anyone? Lucy, a huge fan of the show, and Jennifer, who has somehow escaped its gravitational pull, chat about the life portrayed in Stars Hollow, whether its the last remnant of a bygone era or if thereâs still hope for us to find that close knit community and a job that takes care of us.Topics covered:-The vision of America portrayed in Gilmore Girls-What jobs were like for our parentsâ generation-The plight of millennials and why we have less wealth than previous generations-IBMâs cradle to grave culture in the 1960s-Layoffs and the shift in corporate culture-The decline of third spaces and community post COVID-Differences in community within large cities like NYC and mid-size cities like Nashville
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